Here is a real one---I am a middle easterner living in america....i miss my homeland, and left there when i was four yrs old, i want to visit, but, if i do, i will be forced to fullfill a mandtory draft in the military for two yrs. I cant read or write in persian, i can only speak it, so getting stuck there will suck. On the other hand, sinc ei left there 26 yrs ago, both my gradfathers have died....i dont want to miss seeing my grandmothers before they pass. And finally, on the final hand, america and isreal are talking about attacking iran(my homeland). What should i do?